Asking me to cook isn't the crime. Demanding a car is.
📑 On this page
⚡ The short answer
Cruelty against a married woman is a crime only when her husband or his relative commits wilful conduct grave enough to drive her to suicide or seriously harm her body or mind, or harasses her to extract property such as dowry. Ordinary chores and vague complaints aren't enough. An abnormal death within seven years after dowry harassment is dowry death.
🎬 The 30-second story
The dinner and the car
1
“Can you handle dinner this week? Work is crazy.”
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Aarav
Month two of the marriage.
2
“Your father promised a car. Deliver it, or don't come home.”
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Kabir
Month four. Aarav's father starts. Every day.
3
“No car, no phone, no visits home.”
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Aarav
Month six. Aarav takes her phone.
4
“Dinner was never the problem. The car was.”
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Zoya
Zoya goes to the police.
Tara's ruling: Cooking dinner is ordinary married life. Months of pressure to squeeze a car from her family is harassment for an unlawful demand for property: cruelty, by both the husband and his father.
What counts as cruelty against a married woman?
Everyday English uses cruel loosely. Criminal law can't, so it uses a narrow, defined meaning.
🧮 The formula
The three gates
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A married woman
marriage on at the time
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Husband or his relative
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Cruelty as defined
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Offence
A passage will say: 'Whoever, being the husband or the relative of the husband of a woman, subjects such woman to cruelty shall be punished.' Fail any gate and there's no offence.
📌 What CLAT actually expects
The passage gives the rule. Test each fact against it: who acted, when, and whether the act fits the definition. Sympathy for a character is never a reason to pick an option.
What are the two kinds of cruelty?
⚔️ Side by side
Grave conduct vs property harassment
💔Grave wilful conduct
Harm to life, limb or mind
•Deliberate, not accidental
•Likely to drive her to suicide, or to cause grave injury or danger to life, limb or health, physical or mental
💰Harassment for property
Pressure to pay up
•To make her or her family meet an unlawful demand for property
•Or because they didn't meet it
VS
Test
Grave wilful conduct
Harassment for property
Injury needed?
Conduct must threaten grave harm
No. The pressure is the wrong
Key word
Wilful
Unlawful demand
Either limb is enough.
Wilful means deliberate. Likely means you judge the conduct by its nature, not by whether she broke down. The second limb doesn't need the word dowry: cash for a flat counts. Harassment means a course of conduct, not one request.
Is it cruelty? Work it out in four questions
🧭 Decision flow
Does the offence apply?
❓ Was she married to the accused, or into his family, at the time?
No →
Not this offence. Look for other crimes
Yes ↓
❓ Is the accused her husband or his relative by blood, marriage or adoption?
No →
Not this offence
Yes ↓
❓ Wilful conduct likely to drive her to suicide or gravely harm her?
Yes →
Cruelty: first limb
No ↓
❓ Harassment over an unlawful demand for property?
Yes →
Cruelty: second limb
No →
Marital friction. No offence
Where does cruelty stop?
Is asking a wife to do housework cruelty?
Not by itself. In the case behind CLAT 2023, a High Court quashed a complaint that the wife was treated 'like a maid servant'. Household work for the family is part of running a home. Treatment like a servant, with abuse or deprivation, is different, and the complaint must show which it was.
🎚️ The scale
From friction to crime
← Ordinary lifeCruelty →
Normal friction
Arguments, shared chores.
e.g. Asked to cook while he's busy.
Unkind, not criminal
Rude or cold, but not grave.
e.g. Sarcasm about her cooking.
Grave conduct
Wilful, likely to cause grave harm.
e.g. Starving her, threats to kill.
Property harassment
Pressure on her family to pay.
e.g. Daily taunts until a car arrives.
Are vague allegations enough?
No. 'Harassed mentally and physically', without who did what, and when, doesn't make out the offence. In Dara Lakshmi Narayana v State of Telangana (2024), the Supreme Court quashed a case against the husband's relatives because the allegations were vague and general.
⚠️ The 'whole family' trap
A passage may name the husband, his parents and two sisters. Ask about each one: what did this person do? Living in the same house isn't guilt.
Who counts as a relative of the husband?
🧩 At a glance
Who can be accused?
🤵Husband
The main offender.
👵Mother-in-law
Women relatives can be liable too.
💃Husband's girlfriend
No blood, marriage or adoption tie.
🧳Friend or guest
Not a relative (CLAT 2023).
👨👩👧Her own family
The offence targets the husband's side.
This is a penal law, so 'relative' is read strictly: tied to the husband by blood, marriage or adoption. A stranger who torments her may commit hurt or intimidation, but not this offence.
What if the marriage is void, or over?
A man who marries her while already married can't escape by calling the marriage void: the Supreme Court reads 'husband' to cover anyone who takes on that role. But after a divorce, he isn't her husband, so fresh cruelty falls outside this offence. Acts done during the marriage stay punishable.
An affair? Not cruelty by itself. In Pinakin Mahipatray Rawal v State of Gujarat (2013), it counted only if of a nature likely to drive the wife to suicide.
What is dowry death?
The prosecution needn't prove who lit the match. If four facts line up, the husband or relative is deemed to have caused the death.
🕒 Timeline
The four facts of dowry death
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Day 0
Marriage
The seven-year clock starts.
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Any time
Dowry demand
Before, at or after the wedding.
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Soon before
Cruelty over it
By the husband or a relative, with a live link to the death.
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Within 7 yrs
Abnormal death
Burns, injury, or not under normal circumstances, suicide included.
Soon before isn't immediately before. Courts want a proximate and live link: harassment that hadn't gone stale. Once the four facts are proved, the court presumes the accused caused the death and he must rebut it. The minimum sentence is seven years.
⚔️ Side by side
Cruelty vs dowry death
⚠️Cruelty
No death needed
•No time limit after marriage
🕯️Dowry death
She has died
•Within 7 years of marriage
VS
Test
Cruelty
Dowry death
Causing death
Not relevant
Deemed
Not alternatives: both can be charged together.
What is dowry? Any property given or agreed in connection with the marriage, before, at or after it. Mahr is excluded.
Which cases should you know?
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Landmark case · 2009 · Supreme Court
U. Suvetha v State
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What happened
A wife's dowry complaint named her husband, his mother and his girlfriend.
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The question
Is a husband's girlfriend his 'relative'?
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What the court held
No. 'Relative' means a tie by blood, marriage or adoption, read strictly in a penal law.
What CLAT takes from it: Check the relationship before the conduct.
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Landmark case · 2015 · Supreme Court
Rajinder Singh v State of Punjab
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What happened
Money demands began a year after the wedding. Her father sent a buffalo as a peace offering; ill-treatment continued. She died of poisoning.
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The question
Was a demand made long after the wedding 'dowry'?
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What the court held
Yes. Money demanded any time after marriage and reasonably connected to her death is dowry. An earlier view that money for household expenses isn't dowry was declared wrong.
What CLAT takes from it: Dowry isn't only the wedding-day list.
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Landmark case · 2021 · Supreme Court
Satbir Singh v State of Haryana
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What happened
A wife died of burns about a year after marriage, after repeated dowry harassment.
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The question
What does 'soon before' mean?
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What the court held
A proximate and live link, not 'immediately before'. Once the ingredients are proved, the accused must rebut the presumption.
What CLAT takes from it: Prove the four facts; the burden flips.
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Landmark case · 2014 · Supreme Court
Arnesh Kumar v State of Bihar
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What happened
A husband accused of dowry harassment feared routine arrest.
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The question
Must police arrest everyone named?
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What the court held
No. For offences punishable up to seven years, arrest must be necessary, with reasons recorded.
What CLAT takes from it: Protection and fair process coexist.
How has CLAT asked about cruelty?
📝 Asked in CLAT 2023· Q66Household work
Quashing a case of cruelty that was filed against a man by his wife, the Bombay High Court said that if a married lady is asked to do household work for the family, it cannot be said that she is treated 'like a maid servant'. … The Court added: 'If a married lady is asked to do household work for the purpose of the family, it cannot be said that it is like a maid servant.' The Court held that the mere use of the word harassment 'mentally and physically' in the FIR is not sufficient to constitute an offence Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code ('IPC'), which punishes the husband, or a relative of the husband of a woman who subjects her to cruelty in any way. It is interesting to note that Section 498A of the IPC also provides that if a married woman is actually treated like a 'maid servant', it would be an offence under that Section.
Ashwin and Ashima were married in February 2020. In March 2020, Ashwin asked Ashima to take care of all their household work, such as cooking, cleaning, and other domestic chores, as he was very busy with his professional responsibilities. Ashima claims that this amounts to treating her like a maid servant and constitutes an offence under Section 498A of the IPC. Applying the Bombay High Court decision, is she likely to succeed?
AYes, since Ashwin had only asked Ashima to do their household work, and not for others.
BNo, since Ashwin had only asked Ashima to do their household work, and not for others.
CYes, since Ashwin had asked Ashima to do household work for themselves as well as others.
DNo, since treating a married woman like a maid servant would not amount to an offence under that Section.
Reveal answer + reasoning
Answer: B
Household work for the family isn't maid-servant treatment. Ashwin asked for their own housework, so no offence, for B's reason.
Why the others fail
A — Right reason, wrong conclusion.
C — Nothing says she worked for others.
D — The passage says actual maid-servant treatment is an offence.
📝 Asked in CLAT 2023· Q67Who is a relative
Same passage: the offence punishes the husband, or a relative of the husband, of a woman who subjects her to cruelty.
In April 2020, Ashwin's friend Rakesh visits Ashwin and Ashima's home, and stays with them for a few days. During his visit, he is very mean to Ashima, and uses abusive language with her. He also threw a plate at her one evening when he was unhappy with the meal that she had prepared. Ashima now claims that Rakesh has committed an offence under Section 498A of the IPC. Is she likely to succeed?
ANo, since Rakesh's actions were perfectly justifiable for a man who does not get a well-cooked meal.
BYes, since Rakesh's use of abusive language and throwing the plate at Ashima clearly amount to cruelty.
CNo, since Rakesh is not her husband, nor is he related to Ashwin.
DYes, since Rakesh was staying at Ashwin and Ashima's home at the time of the incident.
Reveal answer + reasoning
Answer: C
Gate two fails. Rakesh is a friend, so however ugly his conduct, it isn't this offence.
Why the others fail
A — Nothing justifies throwing a plate.
B — Cruel conduct, wrong person.
D — Staying there doesn't make him a relative.
📝 Asked in CLAT 2023· Q68After divorce
Same passage: the offence punishes the husband, or a relative of the husband, of a woman who subjects her to cruelty.
Frustrated and upset with her marriage, Ashima applies for and is granted a divorce from Ashwin in November 2020. … She moves into her own apartment and starts going to office regularly at a new job. Ashwin is very upset at this and starts treating Ashima very cruelly. Ashima again claims that Ashwin has committed an offence under Section 498A of the IPC. Is she right?
AYes, since Ashwin has, as we are told, treated her cruelly.
BYes, since Ashwin has been her husband.
CNo, since Ashwin was understandably upset at Ashima's behaviour.
DNo, since she is no longer married to Ashwin.
Reveal answer + reasoning
Answer: D
The cruelty came after the divorce, when Ashwin was no longer her husband. So D.
Why the others fail
A — Cruelty alone isn't enough.
B — 'Has been' isn't 'is'.
C — His feelings are irrelevant.
Also asked: Q69 added an imagined law making chores an offence, with compensation, reaching back three years. Key B: compensation yes, old offence no. A criminal conviction can't be retrospective, but a civil remedy can. Q70: conduct after an amendment falls under it. Key A.
Can you spot the cruelty traps?
💥 Myth vs fact
Myth vs fact
🙅 Myth
Any unkindness by a husband is cruelty.
Tap to bust it →
✅ Fact
Only grave wilful conduct or property harassment.
🙅 Myth
Anyone tormenting a wife at home commits it.
Tap to bust it →
✅ Fact
Only the husband or his relatives.
🙅 Myth
Dowry death needs proof he killed her.
Tap to bust it →
✅ Fact
Prove the four facts and he's deemed to have caused it.
🙅 Myth
'Soon before' means the day before.
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✅ Fact
A live, proximate link, no fixed days.
🎯 Quick quiz
Five fact patterns
0 / 5
Meher's cousin Kabir visits her marital home and abuses her daily.
Q1. Is this the offence of cruelty?
It covers the husband's relatives only.
For months, Aarav's mother threatens to send Zoya home unless her parents pay ₹5 lakh for Aarav's business.
Q2. Is this cruelty?
The second limb needs no injury.
Zoya alleges that 'his whole family harassed me', with no details about anyone.
Q3. What will a court most likely do?
Each accused needs specific allegations.
A wife dies of burns five years after marriage. Her in-laws' only dowry demand was two years earlier, with no ill-treatment since.
Q4. Is this a dowry death?
A demand that went quiet two years earlier may be stale.
Aarav marries Zoya while already married, then harasses her for dowry.
Q5. Can he say he isn't legally her husband?
'Husband' is read purposively; he may face bigamy too.
🎯 In a nutshell
Three gates: married woman, husband or his relative, cruelty as defined.
Two kinds: grave wilful conduct, or harassment for property.
Family housework, vague allegations or an affair alone: not enough.
'Relative' means blood, marriage or adoption.
Dowry death: abnormal death within seven years, dowry cruelty soon before.
What is cruelty against a wife under criminal law?
Cruelty by a husband or his relative of one of two kinds: deliberate conduct likely to drive her to suicide or gravely endanger her life, limb or health, physical or mental; or harassment to force her or her family to meet an unlawful demand for property, such as dowry. Ordinary quarrels don't qualify.
Is asking a wife to do household chores cruelty?
Not by itself. In the case behind the CLAT 2023 passage, a High Court held that asking a married woman to do household work for the family is not treating her like a maid servant. It becomes cruelty only with grave abuse or deprivation that fits the definition.
Can a mother-in-law be accused of cruelty?
Yes. The offence covers any relative of the husband, including women such as his mother or sister. What matters is a tie to the husband by blood, marriage or adoption. A friend, house guest or girlfriend falls outside it.
What is the difference between cruelty and dowry death?
Cruelty needs no death and has no time limit. Dowry death needs an abnormal death within seven years of marriage, after dowry-related cruelty soon before it. Then the husband or relative is treated as having caused the death unless he proves otherwise. Both can be charged together.
Do I need to memorise section numbers for CLAT?
No. CLAT gives you the rule in the passage, and the 2023 set turned on applying it: who acted, when, and whether the act fit the definition. Section numbers sit in the Good to know box only.
